Saturday, July 18, 2015

A huge apology and what's coming up

Hello to anyone who is left out there reading this blog! Here are things that did not happen:

1) I did not fall in a ditch 
2) I was not lost in the desert
3) nor was I taken by an eagle to her majestic nest in the wilds of Wyoming (as much as I wish that had been the case)

Here is what did happen:

1) I moved 700 miles down to Charleston, South Carolina
2) I took a job teaching young children 
3) I totally lost my mind

I'm so sorry that I have been away as long as I have - I will make it up to y'all with an extra long recommendation post coming tomorrow, where one of my Barnard ladies will be featured (heyyyy)! After that, some longer pieces on ethnicity and invisible Gender diversities!

Thank you all and so much love,
Unbeatable Curl Girl

Thursday, May 21, 2015

ART ATTACK: Claude Cahun


Hey y’all! Sorry for the brief hiatus – going through big, exciting life changes! But I’m back with a vengeance with one of my all-time favorite artists, Claude Cahun.



Cahun is incredible, besides her art, for several reasons:

S 1) She was born to a French Jewish family in 1892 in a world becoming increasingly hostile to Jews, none of which prevented her from speaking out against injustice or creating art.

   2)  She was openly gay, in a committed relationship with her (amazing) partner, Suzanne Malherbe (a.k.a. Marcel Moore), who was also a working artist

   3) When the island they lived on was invaded by Nazis, they revolted artistically (posters plastered and thrown everywhere) so effectively that the soldiers truly believed that there was an actual underground resistance network on the island.

And that’s without even mentioning her spectacular photographs. Cahun broke all the rules of identity and gender, 80 years before Postmodernism would even get its name. Her self-portraits show her dressed as a man, buzz cut, costumed as a clown, a weightlifter – her identities flit from photo to photo, refusing any easy label or cohesive meaning. As Fiona (no last name mentioned) from the Feminist Art Archive, describes it:

“She understood herself as an ever changing collection of identities, flowing from one to the next, rather than a single or linear identity.”



I find Claude Cahun’s work striking and profoundly moving. In a time when being different, othered, was often a death sentence, she unabashedly claimed her identity, in whatever shape or performative manifestation it came in. She challenged ethnic, sexual and gender codes in order to create works that question our fundamental beliefs about who we are as humans and spectators. She turns the gaze back on us and makes us ask – what do we look for in a picture? Why is it unnerving when her gender code cannot be read? What does this say about the sexual dynamics in looking? She turns questions back towards the subject and how they have learned to look, to look for – gender, sexuality, identity – in these representational practices.




Her works are vastly intriguing and largely ignored – overshadowed by her male, Surrealist counterparts. But her work will always stand out to me as innovative, daring and deeply brilliant. 


Links:

Theodor Adorno's piece about Anti-Semitism and the turn towards the subject 

She is on view in London now!

Monday, May 11, 2015

Boyfriend-zone

We were play-rough-housing:

*looks deep into my eyes
"this is how I hurt you"
*closes my tumblr app*

#feministguys #ouch #nerdfights 


Saturday, May 9, 2015

Boyfriend-zone

"That's the power of feminism. YOU get to choose." -Kevin *wipes away proud tear*

Single Eagle Tear: "Girl Crush"

Time for my first Single Eagle Tear  post, where I do what I do best: complain!

When I first saw the song "Girl Crush" by Little Big Town I was like - Country? Lady Crush? ALL MY DREAMS ARE COMING TRUE.


Even the first verse was promising:

"I got a girl crush
Hate to admit it but,
I got a hard rush
It's slowing down
I got it real bad
Want everything she has
That smile and that midnight laugh
She's giving you now"

Wait....what??? "She's giving you now" - Nooooooooooo! That's right this song, entitled Girl Crush, is, in fact, about a dude. Her "crush" on this girl is a creepy wannabe crush because she is in a relationship with a man that the singer's character is into. Lame.




But, I never like to end my posts on a sad note, so here is one of the GSD-friendliest country songs I've come across, "Follow Your Arrow" by Kacey Musgraves. Cute, funny and great for belting in the car on a long, country road.


Friday, May 8, 2015

LGBTQ-why?


I mentioned in an earlier post that I identify as “queer,” instead of bi because it makes me more comfortable because I don’t believe that other people necessarily need to know the ins and outs (no dirty joke intended) of my orientation. I realize that this is an intensely personal and subjective choice; “queer” has never been used against me, to break me down and so is still a safe space for me and my identity.



Having a word means having a place in our language, which means having an acknowledged and realized social identity. Those words often gain their most meaning, though, relationally, as in the acronym LGBT(QI). James Nichols says it best in his HuffPoarticle:





This acronym started out as a coverall term for a group of diverse people whose identities, lives and loves were questioned and persecuted. It was a profound linguistic move, an admirable coverall – but, like an old sweater, we’ve outgrown it. It’s not bad, it’s just how progress works. We are in a time of an identity revolution. We are starting to see, as a society, more and more identities (genderfluid, genderqueer, asexual, demisexual, intersex etc.) being made increasingly visible in discourses and in the media. With this welcome and wonderful proliferation of terminology and identity possibilities, the former catch-all, LGBT(QI), just isn’t catching us anymore.

It’s time for something different – better.

When I began researching for this post, I couldn’t think of alternatives to LGBTQI except my own adopted term. So when I stumbled upon the acronym GSD, it was an epiphanic moment. GSD is an acronym meaning “Gender and Sexuality Diversities.” It started out at GSM – with the M standing for Minorities – but transformed into a more welcoming, positive term. Obviously, nothing is perfect and this term, like any other, can and should be critiqued to improve it, but I think it is the best term I've seen so far. It groups us together without generalizing, without forgetting the “diversity” of the identities under the umbrella.

I felt, on seeing this term, a sense of unity and community that the LGBTQI acronym had just never given me. GSD gives me the space to both relate to people who are oppressed by systems of power and identify positively with their gender and sexuality in similar ways, but also the space to respect everyone’s different journey, struggle and lived experience.

James Nichols says that the new acronym symbolizes a “shifting focus from single-issue political gains towards the creation of a more equitable society for all individuals marginalized by power and privilege.”

So here’s a final breakdown of why I like the term:
  • ·        More inclusive of all our diverse friends!
  • ·        More coherent/less of a mouthful (phew!)
  • ·        Inclusive of all without being overly general
  • ·        Symbolically moving us towards societal tolerance
  • ·        The acronym can also stand for Gorgeous Sassy Dinosaurs





Comic Corner: The Unbeatable Squirrel Girl


The title of this blog isn't for nothing, y'all! It's time to recommend a comic that is gender-friendly and all-around amazing:

THE UNBEATABLE SQUIRREL GIRL



This new Marvel series (2015-present) is everything I have ever wanted in a comic - it's funny and smart, has great art and well-written storylines and dialogue. What makes it SUPERB, though, is who Ryan North and Erica Henderson have re-made Squirrel Girl into as a character. She is independent, but not afraid to accept help from her furry and non-furry friends alike, making her a strong character without turning her into "strong independent lady" archetype #5,971,867,657. One of her best traits is her accepting, empathetic, friendly nature - she befriends a prickly (read: I identify strongly with her) roommate and has one of the funniest, heart-warming conversations I've ever read with big-baddie Galactus (issue #4). 



Can I also give a shout out to her admirable self-esteem? She actually made me reconsider my own reflection in the mirror. I thought representation was something I talked about and theorized, until it happened to me. Seeing her so confident and happy with her body, I kid you not, altered my self-esteem. I finally had a superhero who looked more like me and was....*gasps*.....happy with herself!  



I look forward to reading Squirrel Girl pretty much constantly - her adventures are exciting, fun and make me laugh out loud but also think. She gives me the hope to go on wading through rack after rack of images of inexplicably tiny costumes, absurd body types and positions, and mind-numbingly misogynistic writing. Squirrel Girl is truly unbeatable by villains or society. She is complex, multifaceted and, though part squirrel, very human. 

GO, RUN, CLICK and  buy her comics digitally here

See when the next one will come out or where to buy one here